Desiring a Fulfilling Faith, Not a Fast One

For the past two years I’ve been cooking meals consistently for our family. Not long after dear Danielle gave birth, I was able to take that on fully, and have loved it ever since. We had gotten to a place where fast food was our go-to meal option, and it really was starting to take a toll both on finances and our mental headspace. So, I started to utilize our cookbooks we had collected and easy family recipes, in order to build out a good rotation of quick to make options and then have fun trying out new ones.

I learned very quickly that fast food is great for a little while, but good food is much more fulfilling.

I think the same is true for our faith.

All too often we lean towards the quick option; checking the boxes and never actually living out the lifestyle that Christ exemplified during His ministry. I’m guilty of this coasting faith, checking the box of a Sunday service and a glance at the verse of the day.

But that’s a fast faith, something that might get me by for a moment, but in the long run will cause me to burn out.

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Every Day is a Fresh Page

I recently got a new laptop. My last laptop I purchased was a refurbished MacBook I got for college, a little over ten years ago. It served me well for many papers, messages, and of course blogs I uploaded weekly here for many years. As I headed into this new year, I realized it was time to finally upgrade, as my trusty laptop needed to be tethered to power and wasn’t able to stay up to date.

I love getting something new, you have a moment to start over and reset to what you want things to be. For my laptop, I kept only a few files to transfer and the rest archived on a hard drive, because I didn’t need to keep it all the same, I get to restart and do something different.

I look at this in my day-to-day life as well, I look at each day as a fresh page, nothing written yet and my choices can determine the direction.

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Words: What We Say to Others and Ourselves Forms our World

I love playing Dungeons and Dragons with my friends. We get together and play every week, and while we love playing, we really love being able to spend time together. Part of the game involves magic, and there is a spell that I think is really cool. There’s a spell called “Wither and Bloom” that allows you to attack an enemy and at the same time heal an ally. It’s a lot of fun in flavor with your character, but it stands out to me as a good visual representation of the power we hold with our words.

I’m sure over the course of your life, there have been moments that have stuck with you over time. Some may be words of encouragement or empowerment, where someone saw something in you that you never fully realized yourself. Some may ben words that have hurt you, cut to your heart, and as much as you try to forget, they have stuck with you. Words have power, and what we speak over one another can either heal or harm. The same is true with your own internal voice.

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Life is Beautiful

I’ve been thinking recently of how beautiful life truly is. Maybe it’s due to the fact that the sun came out and I felt early signs of Spring, but I think it’s mainly due to reflecting on the beauty of the world around me.

When we first moved into our house, we noticed a tree in the back that looked dead, only to find out that a new tree was growing out of it. It is a crazy thing to see, this husk of the old and dead having new life burst from it. I’m encouraged by this, because it reminds me of how God never gives up on us, on how new life can always be breathed into us.

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You Can Control Who You Choose To Be

There are a lot of things out of our control in this world, but the one thing we can control is ourselves. I think this especially true in this cultural moment where a lot of what is happening in the world seems crazy, and it is, but rather than give up hope, we can control who we want to be in this moment. Do we want to make a difference where God has placed us? Then we must be active in how we love those in our circles.

I was thinking about this concept after reading through some of the icons in the old testament; from Joseph who chose to focus on God during temptations, David who chooses to remain humble under a tyrant king, and Shadrach Meshach, and Abednego who choose to remain faithful despite the threat of death if they didn’t worship false gods. These are strong examples for us now, to remain faithful to a loving God and choose to control our actions despite of what may be happening in our own lives and world.

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Made – Reflections in our Current Time

Current events have been heartbreaking. Heartbreaking because there is a continuing snowball effect of how people are being treated. Lines are being deepened and words continue to be used to vilify whole people groups to the point where people are taken, beaten and murdered.

What’s even worse, is we see this as a cycle, one that continues over and over, each time growing worse and worse.

As followers of Christ, we should not fall into this trap of treating others that contradicts the truth of Scripture.

What we are seeing, is the effects of sin, distorting the original image of God to our own making. My heart breaks and I have righteous anger especially when those who claim to be a disciple of Jesus, twist Scripture and truth in order to justify looking at others as if they are not made in the image of God.

This is wrong and I have to make the distinction that I do not align in any way with those who use God’s love as a weapon and not a free gift for all.

So, I am choosing to use my words, especially for those that desire to follow Christ, that we are all made in God’s image, worthy of love and called to love others no matter what.

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Preparing in the Waiting

I love the season of winter, which I know, is not exactly true for everyone. I love this season because it is a time to prepare for the warmer days to come. Both in the natural world, and in our own lives. We set ambitions and goals, waiting for the time to be right.

That’s the hard part; waiting for the time to be right.

We don’t know what the future holds, and often in our own desires we want to have the full plan laid out and know exactly what is coming. But this just isn’t possible.

God has designed each of us with purpose to do good works that reflect His heart, the timing might just not be what you thought it would. And that’s okay.

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The Cost of Community

The cost of community is inconvenience. I heard this statement from a while back and it really stuck with me, as I love the power that this communicates. Everyone desires community, because people want to be authentically known and loved, to have someone that will be there when life is good and when life presents challenges. The hard part is actually finding good, authentic community, because it comes at a price.

What this means is that you have to play the role, and not just be a consumer. Which is exactly what we find when reading on how the first church operated. They came together and met the needs of those around them, and when they found themselves in need, they had cultivated relationships with those who had their back.

This is the type of community I desire, and one that I need to actively participate in, so that means that inconvenience is the price I must pay in order to foster deep community.

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The Quiet Beauty of Christmas

A little bit ago at this point, we had a small amount of snow come to North Carolina. By snow of course I mean a wintery mix of rain and “snow,” but that’s not the point. What I always love about these moments, is the beauty that comes. I was able to be outside at night and just listen to the snowfall and watch the little bits of it build up around the Christmas lights on the house, it was wonderful, and in this quiet moment, I was able to reflect on all of the joys that I have in my life.

I adore these quiet moments of Christmas, whether it’s the sound of laughter from Violet playing, nothing but the light of the Christmas tree in the living room after everyone is asleep, or the sounds of wrapping paper covering gifts as dear Danielle and I sit on the floor of our room. To me that’s the magic and it reminds me of the importance to embrace the quiet moments in our lives.

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Joy in Every Season

Every night during our bedtime routine with Violet, we pray, and always end our prayers by saying “amen.” Violet loves this part, because since she is basically a sponge soaking everything from us up, and she belts out a big, “AMEN,” and it’s just so perfect. It’s her saying something we say every night with so much joy.

I love it so much every time I hear it.

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