The Quiet Beauty of Christmas

A little bit ago at this point, we had a small amount of snow come to North Carolina. By snow of course I mean a wintery mix of rain and “snow,” but that’s not the point. What I always love about these moments, is the beauty that comes. I was able to be outside at night and just listen to the snowfall and watch the little bits of it build up around the Christmas lights on the house, it was wonderful, and in this quiet moment, I was able to reflect on all of the joys that I have in my life.

I adore these quiet moments of Christmas, whether it’s the sound of laughter from Violet playing, nothing but the light of the Christmas tree in the living room after everyone is asleep, or the sounds of wrapping paper covering gifts as dear Danielle and I sit on the floor of our room. To me that’s the magic and it reminds me of the importance to embrace the quiet moments in our lives.

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Joy in Every Season

Every night during our bedtime routine with Violet, we pray, and always end our prayers by saying “amen.” Violet loves this part, because since she is basically a sponge soaking everything from us up, and she belts out a big, “AMEN,” and it’s just so perfect. It’s her saying something we say every night with so much joy.

I love it so much every time I hear it.

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Joyful Thanksgiving

I love the week of Thanksgiving. I think there is something so special about taking a moment to stop and be reminded of the blessings that surround us. I recently spent the day picking up groceries and then prepping food for something I was going to cook, and I was reminded how many small little things like that are all around me, and I don’t even realize the blessings that is right in front of me. When I choose to be thankful for the things around me, I am filled with a sense of joy, because I know that there is so much to be joyful for.

It’s also important to understand, that even if I have nothing, I can remain thankful and hold onto joy in every season.

The holiday season is not always the easiest and many of us are walking through things that not everyone knows about, especially for those heading into this week.

What I hope to do today, is remind you that in every season, God has you. Good or bad, you are still a loved child of God.

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Kindness is Easy When You Know the Needs Around You

I think way too often we overcomplicate being kind. It’s not always convenient, we often try to make hoops to jump through or other requirements in order to justify it; but the truth is, as a follower of Christ, being kind is a fruit of the Spirit and one that is much simpler than we try to make it. When we look at the way Jesus poured into the lives of the people around Him, it was often Him just being present with those around Him.

That’s what the core of being kind is, just being present with those around you, so that when a need or opportunity arises, you are there, ready to be a light.

John reiterates this when he reminds followers of the way, that it’s not about just saying something, but living it out.

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Your Greatest Ministry Opportunity is All Around You

I’ve been in and around the church world for most of my life, and I always think about how easy it is to think of ministry as something just for a select few, and that the field in which to do ministry always must be drastic or extreme. But what if that just simply isn’t true? What would you do if I told you that mindset just simply isn’t Biblical at all?

The thing that’s even more beautiful about this? Your greatest ministry opportunity is all around you. Your ministry field is your neighborhood, office, classroom, and your own home.

It’s not complicated, it’s about being present to the people all around you and pointing them to Christ by the way you love well.

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A Spirit of Power

I’m sitting here writing this on a beautiful October day; rain, cloudy skies, and the leaves look like they are on fire. I love this time of year and love how fun it is to get into the spooky mindset, and ultimately eating lots of sweets. This month plays with testing your fear, now I am not a super scary season person, but I do enjoy the Scooby-Doo levels of fear that this time brings with it. I think about fear much more during this season, which is why I have been writing about it. We have fears about stepping out in faith and stepping into the life that Christ ushers us into, there is fear of the unknown and fear of failure.

What this season does, though, is reminds we that we give fear too much power in our lives.

Fear can truly paralyze us into being good with where we are, when God wants to move us into a life of deeper meaning. The thing is, we give fear too much power, when the truth is, Christ gives us a spirit of power.

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What Would Keep You?

In reading through the book of Acts, I love this moment where Philip has been led by the Spirit to leave his place of comfort and he ends up on a desert road with an opportunity to be a light. A eunuch, one devoted to service and who has modified their body to represent it, has an encounter with the Spirit through Philip. I recently stuck with his question, “what would keep me from being baptized?” Looking at the water, he asks a rhetorical question, because the truth is, he has nothing holding him back from changing his life for the better.

This moment has been encouraging to me, personally, because I’m in a season where it has been hard to follow my calling. The reality is, I may not be in a ministry position, but that does not lessen my calling. It doesn’t lessen yours either. What would keep me from living as a light? What would keep us from being a light to the world around us? Nothing, we are not limited to a standard or check boxes in order to live out who we are called to be.

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You Can Do Difficult Things

I used to desire a life with no stress. I like having a plan and not needing to worry, but that’s not the case. We all know this, no matter how much we might try to get things set perfectly, life will always shift and change. You’ll experience great things and difficult things, and that’s the beauty of life. Dear Danielle and I joke that the theme of our entire marriage has been “pivot,” because we have found ourselves in an ongoing life cycle of change and shifting the directions we thought we would go. I’ll be honest, there have been times in these changes and shifts that life has thrown at us, where I wasn’t sure I could do it. That the difficult thing in front of us was too much, and yet, time and time again, we have been able to trust God and do the difficult thing.

As much as I would love a life where I never had to face something hard, that isn’t what it will be. It’s also important to understand that our lives are more than just making it through each day, we are called to be a light and live it out. I am so thankful for Jesus’ encouragement, that He will provide us with the powerful Spirit in order to be a light in all the world and accomplish what is in front of us.

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Better Together

I really love reading through the beginning of the Church in the book of Acts, seeing how these believers came together as a community to share the Gospel and be there for each other. It’s pretty clear that in today’s world, things are very divided and tensions grow daily. What is even more disheartening and breaks me, is seeing that those who claim to follow Christ, spew the most hateful ideology of an us versus them mindset, all while mis-using Scripture to fuel their hate. Let me be clear, this is wrong and against the entire message of Christ and Scripture.

It’s so sad and yet also not surprising, we see that the goal of the enemy is to steal, kill, and destroy. What is a better way of doing that, than attacking the pride that lives in the heart?

Now, that sounds very bleak, but I have a heart for optimism and I truly believe that it does not have to be this way.

We do not have to let ourselves fall into the trap that has been set, we can choose to follow the example that Christ left for us, to be a light in the world as a community because we are better together.

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Known and Loved

I once worked a job where I was newer on the team of an established group, which is always a daunting thing to walk into. People have dynamics already at play, so you have to learn quickly while others begin to warm up to you, but this was a tougher place to make that breakthrough. There was a moment though, where one of the guys on the team and I were going to go make a pick up run to a place that was going to be a thirty-minute drive away, which I knew would be perfect to get to know each other and make that breakthrough. What actually happened was a one-sided conversation, where I learned a lot about him but he never really asked about me.

Those really aren’t great, because you can tell when someone is interested in getting to know you, more than just a monologue about themselves. What made it funnier is he made a comment to me that “people don’t really know that much about you,” like, yeah! You didn’t seek it!

I share this because each of us want to be known, we want people to care about us because it shows that we are more than a means to an end.

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