Known and Loved

I once worked a job where I was newer on the team of an established group, which is always a daunting thing to walk into. People have dynamics already at play, so you have to learn quickly while others begin to warm up to you, but this was a tougher place to make that breakthrough. There was a moment though, where one of the guys on the team and I were going to go make a pick up run to a place that was going to be a thirty-minute drive away, which I knew would be perfect to get to know each other and make that breakthrough. What actually happened was a one-sided conversation, where I learned a lot about him but he never really asked about me.

Those really aren’t great, because you can tell when someone is interested in getting to know you, more than just a monologue about themselves. What made it funnier is he made a comment to me that “people don’t really know that much about you,” like, yeah! You didn’t seek it!

I share this because each of us want to be known, we want people to care about us because it shows that we are more than a means to an end.

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Hunger and Thirst

In John Mark Comer’s book, Practicing the Way, he makes the statement that all of us are being formed by something, that can either be the world around us or by Christ. This is not just a profound statement, but one that is vital as people who claim to follow Christ. I’ve found that many times, people listen to an explanation for how to live, rather than seeking the path that Jesus left His disciples. Those disciples being you and me, not just the ones we read about.

When I meet with those who follow Jesus and those who just have questions about following, my biggest encouragement is to read and embrace the lifestyle that Jesus lived, because for all of us, that is the truth we are called to live out. It’s the easy answer, but often the answer that we avoid the most. Why? Why do we know what we should do and yet turn to something easier? We go to church on Sunday but don’t even look at the Scriptures referenced on Monday. We follow a myriad of influencers to give us their view of Scripture, yet don’t validate what they claim for ourselves. We end up misusing Scripture to either make ourselves look better or harm others, something that Jesus fully rejects and stood against.

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What Are You Worshipping?

I’ve been thinking about worship a lot recently, part of that because of how nice it has begun to feel outside again. There’s something wonderful about the way the mornings are chilly and the breeze begins to blow more throughout the day. I definitely find myself in the summer months of North Carolina avoiding the outdoors from July and August, but this weather has been perfect. When I’m outside, I definitely feel closer to God, there’s a magical feeling of the fresh air, the growth around me, and the noises of distant birds singing a song.

I used to think about worship in a singularly defined way; it always took place in a room with a good sound system, dim lights, and a band that stayed on pace with Ableton…but obviously that just isn’t true. That’s a very surface level view of worship, because really worship isn’t about music, worship is about who you are humbling yourself and submitting to.

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Reflections: Looking Back to Move Forward

I love this moment in Scripture, where Joshua has led the people away from harm, and he stops to mark the moment, looking back in order to move forward. I think this is important for all of us to do as we continue to grow in our lives. Not to dwell on the past, but to look back at where you have been and then use that to move yourself forward into new things.

September is here and with is brings in cooler (sort of) weather and into a season that begins a time of harvest. I view the year’s seasons as a way to reflect and navigate in my own life, as September marks the beginning of the end of the year. Fall is naturally busy and one that if I let it slip by, it can move through my fingers in an instant.

So, I begin to reflect so that I can take hold of the good that will come in the coming months.

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Evidence Over Optics

There was a video that went viral a little while back, where a youth group was interviewing their students, asking the student what the verse in their social media bio said…and not one student actually knew what the verse said. I saw a lot of responses and a whole lot of judgement, and at first I will admit I too had the thought of, “are they for real,” but I stopped myself because I too have been in that place. Where I looked good and like I had this deep relationship with God, but I really was just coasting in my faith or didn’t make it my own.

I mean, think back to high school, you’re really a product of your environment, and the church world is a very easy environment to look good without needing it to be real. Now, the majority of you reading this have been out of high school for many years, which would let us believe that we would never do something like what these students do, but we know that’s not really true.

I mean, who hasn’t shared a picture of their coffee and Bible…that might not have been opened at all, but the optics look great! The verse in the bio, the shot of your hands high in worship, your prayer before a meal in public, all of it looks great; but at the end of the day, the evidence matters more over the optics of your faith.

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Why I’m Thankful for Growing up and Remaining Joyful

The other day a memory came up on my timeline from a training I had for youth small group leaders. The crazy part, it was from seven years ago, seven years ago and still I have the same training for leaders because the core remains the same. It’s about the heart, about discipleship, about growth, true growth that comes from a firm foundation in Christ.

My dear Danielle’s birthday was also this past weekend, and it was so fun to look back at our own story and the years from when we met to who we are now.

When I look back I see a joy-filled spirit in every moment. Now that doesn’t mean every moment has been amazing and wonderful, there have been lost jobs, heartaches, and unknowns, yet in every season our foundation has remained the same and our joy has not been quelled.

I’m so thankful for the growth, not becoming hardened and angry, but remaining joyful in all seasons because of our foundation in a loving God.

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Whatever is True

A few days ago, dear Danielle and I were having a nightly recap of watching the TikToks we sent each other because we’re cute like that. I had seen a wild video of a security video of a bear climbing onto a trampoline, but as we watched it, I realized that it was an AI video and not real…which was so frustrating.

Thinking I had quickly seen a funny video, only to realize it was fake, was such a bummer because rather than seeing something real, I had been fooled. Now, I am not a fan of AI at all, I think God has made us creative, and cutting out a creative person for a lesser quality product is just wrong (not only that but the negative environmental impact of God’s creation doesn’t sit right with me). It’s harder to differentiate what is real and fake on digital platforms, and it reminded me of this Scripture where Paul encourages the church to dwell on things that bring praise and are true.

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Kind is Cool

“Let all bitterness, anger and wrath, shouting and slander be removed from you, along with all malice. And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.”

Ephesians 4:31-32 CSB

I really loved the new Superman movie. Dear Danielle and I had a date night to go watch it, and it was so encouraging for us to see the hero on the screen, and the whole theme of the movie, be kind above all else. I’m always inspired by stories of heroes and people doing the right thing, it’s why I love D&D and reading comics books, the art reveals the heart of God. The heart of a kind God.

I’ve always strived to be kind and have joy, that word “strived” means that I am not perfect at that feat, but I try my hardest. Try to live with humility and give others the benefit of the doubt, doing what I can to see the good in all things even when things aren’t good.

Sometimes it doesn’t always work out for me, and that’s okay.

I tend to let humility make me be overlooked for my achievements and wins, I have given people chances that I really shouldn’t have, and I easily fall into the “if I don’t text first I don’t hear anything backup friend” vibe.

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Are You Called to Comfort or Compassion?

“Looking at him, Jesus loved him and said to him, ‘You lack one thing: Go, sell all you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.’ But he was dismayed by this demand, and he went away grieving, because he had many possessions.”

Mark 10:21-22 CSB

I think this moment during the ministry of Jesus is a cautionary tale for all of us. The story of the rich young ruler is a short one, a man comes to Jesus, asking how he can follow Jesus and be a part of the heavenly kingdom. The response we see is filled with love and Jesus calls the man to give up his possessions to help others and then actively follow Jesus.

Seems simple, yet, he doesn’t do it, and he fades into obscurity of history where we don’t even know the name of this man.

We can infer that this man knew of what Jesus was doing and how he was calling others, to the point where he wanted to follow and have this new life in Christ. But we see that when Jesus called him to compassion, the man chose comfort. It was easier to keep his possessions than to give to the poor and have a life of meaning through being a part of God’s kingdom.

In reading this passage in Scripture, I was asking myself this question and it is one that I want to ask you as well, are you called to comfort of compassion?

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Remain in Me: A Look at John 15 and a Daily Walk

I’ve shared in most of my posts this year, that my word for the year has been “rooted,” the idea being that I am choosing to be rooted to the truth and the source of all life; Christ. This has influenced many of my posts, as I have been writing about the fruit of the Spirit that are produced when you are rooted, which must be hand in hand in our walk with Christ.

I am rooted and therefore I produce good fruit.

A friend of mine, Jay, recently shared some posts that I believe are a good reminder for a follower of Christ, that the goal is not one thing or action, but the reminder that we are called to live with a kingdom mindset. That when we follow Jesus, our whole life shifts to that focus. I believe this focus means that you are rooted in truth and your life will produce good fruit that points others back to our Savior.

This requires something very important, you need to be rooted, and the way we do this is by remaining in Christ.

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